Guan: Watching everyone else, never yourself
This page describes a situation. It gives no verdict. The number, trigrams and inner hexagram are all checkable.
Answer first (self-contained)Guan (hexagram 20, 巽 over 坤) describes this kind of situation: Watching everyone else, never yourself. It does not predict anything and it does not decide for you. It does one thing: it makes visible which dynamic you are currently inside, so you can recognise whether you are in it. There are three ways to check. First, the situation itself: Watching everyone else, never yourself. Second, three checkable facts below (the number, the two trigrams, and the inner hexagram). Third, the three steps at the bottom, and whether you have done any of them.
What situation this is
You are at a point where a judgement is needed. People are around, the situation is moving, and you keep observing. You collect. You work out what others think. You still hold no position. Observation has given you the feeling that you already understand this clearly. Ask you for a conclusion and you find you have been watching other people, not yourself.
Checkable facts
- Number
- Hexagram 20 of 64
- Name
- 观 (Guan)
- Trigrams
- 巽 over 坤
- Inner hexagram
- The internal force is 剥
- Reversed
- Reversed hexagram: Da Zhuang
- Inverted
- Inverted hexagram: Lin
- Palace
- 乾 (四世)
- Book
- 上经
- Structure
- 巽上坤下
- Seasonal phase
- 八月(酉)
- Law attached
- 同构 (secondary: 循环)
- Position
- Previous Lin, next Shi He
How it differs from the neighbours
Previous hexagram Lin (hexagram 19) describes: You are high up, and you have not thought about coming down.
Next hexagram Shi He (hexagram 21) describes: There is something you have been swallowing instead of saying.
The inner hexagram (internal force) The inner hexagram is 剥. The situation on this page is what is visible; The internal force is Bo: the act of looking wears you away a little. Look long enough and your capacity to judge is used up. is what has been going on inside it. They are different layers, and reading one as the other is the usual mistake.
Three steps you can take today
- Isomorphism means the same rule acting again and again. Change the rule and the isomorphism is broken.
- Write down the thing you are judging. Close your eyes for five minutes. Ask only: if nobody were to evaluate me, which one would I pick?
- Am I trying to understand this, or am I using understanding it to delay deciding?
Do just this today Today, answer the question you want to ask everyone, once, by yourself, and write it down.
Does this sound like you
- I understand a lot about the situation and still cannot decide.
- I keep working out what they think, and never ask what I think.
- I looked at many options and picked the one that looked safest.
- I always feel there is not enough information, when really I am afraid to commit.
How this path works, and where it breaksThe way forward is looking at yourself first. Guan is watching, and the order of the watch is the whole content: you who watch others are not yet watching. Observation replaces judgement, and the thicker the information gets, the more knowing feels like a reason not to decide.
Inner hexagram: the internal forceThe internal force is Bo: the act of looking wears you away a little. Look long enough and your capacity to judge is used up.
What this hexagram does not doThis does not tell you to commit at once, and it does not say observing is wrong. It points at exactly one thing: in the position you are watching from, you are missing the layer that is you.
Most likely misuseThe easiest misuse is to read it as observing more being wise. It argues the reverse. Observing only counts when you have first observed yourself.
Sources for this page
- Original text (judgment and Tuan commentary)
- I Ching, hexagram 20
风行地上，省方观民设教；观人者先观己。 - Data source
- 周易深度解析与蒸馏_v3 · 卦义表
Number, trigrams, inner hexagram, reversed, inverted, palace and seasonal phase all come from the original text and can be checked. - Who wrote the situation descriptions
- Original to this project
Situation names, signals, today's step, micro-action and the core question were written for this project. They are not from the original text and are not an authoritative reading of it.
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